~*~在此祝福全天下所以的有情人~*~都能夠忠誠眷屬~*~

愛上一个人... 如此的甜蜜卻又讓人受傷害 ...
放棄一个人... 如此的難過卻又讓人心碎 ...


珍惜身旁的每一个人,不要等到失去了, 才瞭解到遺憾.和後悔是如此的痛苦....


如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?
如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼?
是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開?
是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?


~※→因為愛你.所以放手還你自由←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以不再讓你困擾←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以寧願自己難過←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以我逼自己離開←※~

爱一个人好难？

如果你不爱一个人,请放手. 好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你, 请放开自己, 好让自己有机会爱别人.

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的, 有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.

人生中有许多种 . 但别让自己为一种伤害.

有些缘分是注定要失去的, 有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,

爱一个人不一定要拥有, 但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.

男人哭了是因为他真的爱了. 女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害, 我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害, 我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害, 我选择离开.

如果失去是苦，你怕不怕付出 ,
如果迷乱是苦，你会不会选择结束,
如果追求是苦，你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,
如果分离是苦，你要向谁倾诉,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚, 好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!



其实爱一个人是很简单的，

１.她無聊時陪她.
２.她難過時安慰她.
３.不讓女友主動約.
4.讓她每天都開心愉快.
5.不要讓她傷心難過.
6.當她被欺負要立刻去保護她.
7.不要隱瞞女友事情.
8.不背叛.

有那么难吗？

♥ 爱 ♥

not emo. just random :)
another fwd email to be shared :):):)

如果你不爱一个人, 请放手. 好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你, 请放开自己, 好让自己有机会爱别人.

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,
有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.

人生中有许多种人, 但别让自己为一种伤害.

有些缘分是注定要失去的,
有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的.

爱一个人不一定要拥有,
但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.

男人哭了是因为他真的爱了,
女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害, 我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害, 我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害, 我选择离开.

如果失去是苦， 那你怕不怕付出？
如果迷乱是苦， 你会不会选择结束？
如果追求是苦， 你会不会选择执迷不悟？
如果分离是苦， 你要向谁倾诉？
好多事情都是后来才看清楚,
好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦。。。

use the babel fish below to translate if u can't read chinese ;)

mingkee ☆ scandals :)

new couple in town:


:: vivi and kai loon :):):) ::


i announce lidat to punish them for not telling us the moment they got together. haha.

btw,
went eye on malaysia with oj sim today :)



he promised to bring me here AGES ago. and since today is the last day its in titiwangsa (because it will soon be shifted to malacca) :/



so we must sit :)



even though it is so expensive -___-



and also must take pic inside the eye la :)



and also must take pic with the eye la :)





i don't know why most pics i took were shaky :(


:: the eye behind the bamboos :):):) ::


:: picking up the eye ::


:: and holding it :) ::


i love it best in white :):):)
see it in malacca soon.

talking bout shifting...
i got rummors that ruums is shifting too.



the so very memorable place that started some things and also ended things :/
a place i will not forget. shifting to hartamas i heard.

things changes. new things blossoming and old things changing. hope all changes will lead to a better tmr :)

嫁给我

小星星亮晶晶 闪在你的眼睛里
从此走进我的心 呼风又唤雨
我愿意好愿意 双手奉上我自己
翻山越岭找到你 再也不离去

爱是我 爱是你 爱是肯定句
谁也不能阻挡我 永远守护你

日出日落黑夜白昼 时时刻刻拥在怀中
清清楚楚这感动 分秒刻印成永久
我望着你你看着我 有句话我想对你说
今生今世跟着我 做你幸福的理由 嫁给我

was at a wedding just now and i heard this song. din realise it is so touching.

it made me started to think. how will it be like to get married to someone, trusting him for the rest of your life? putting your happiness in someone's hand and all of yourself will be given to him. its so scary that we have to trust someone to that extend in marriage.


i always tell myself to not even get married, most probably influenced by those movies i watch where every single guy will be betraying their wife in someway or another, be it intentionally or not. with all these thoughts in my mind, how to trust marriage liao la?

but of coz. as a girl, i surely hope i can find someone that can really click with me, can understand me throughly, can be there for me whenever i need him, can do everything i like and quit everything i dun like, can pamper me to the max and everything any other girl will hope their boyfriend will do for them.
but does such person really exist?

they say falling in love is to give someone your heart and trust them not to break it. how true.

marriage is more than falling in love. its a responsibility greater that i as a 20 years old girl can understand. i don't know about others of my age, but i'm really affrid of marriage. coz i feel that marriage comes closely with trust, and with trust there will always be betrayal.

why is there no more simple love in this world?

LOVE vs COMPANY

warning: this is an emo post.

sometimes, love becomes a habit.
and one can't tell they're still in love or just doing a usual habit.

does merely keeping contact makes u two still a couple?
how do u define a couple?
is it that u merely need or company during your free time thats y u got yourself a partner?
are partners to be abandoned when u are busy?
will u ever tell ppl u're busy with your partner?
thousands of linked questions flooded my mind, but who is there to answer it for me?

when love becomes a routine, lots things became an unwritten rule.

u forgot
that calling each other is to talk bout your day,
and not just to say good night and fulfill your duty,
and to avoid the consequences of not calling.

u forgot
to hang out together is to get to know more of each other,
spend time with each other,
and not just to hang out and meet up to fulfill your responsibility.

u forgot
spending time together on occasions is to appreciate the occasion together,
and not just to let ppl know that 'of coz i did spend it with her'

u forgot
knowing special dates of your relationship is to celebrate the day together,
and not just to be able to answer when u're asked.

u forgot
eating together is to sit down nicely to look at each other,
to know what each other likes,
and not just to fill your stomach.

u forgot
holding hands is to let each other know u're still there ,
and not just to hold because every other couple does that.

u forgot
a hug can reassure a lot of things,
so don't hug just to hug.

when # is used to @'s company, # thought # is in love.
but is # in love?
nobody knows.

an email that i feel is trying to tell me something ...

i just read an email ...
and i feel its trying to tell me something ... something that i've wondered and feared ...

the email is about a story ... of a girl ...

she have this boyfriend -- A ... caring and everything ...
everynight when she misses him ... she call her phone ... and he will be there to pick up ...

she asked him "why haven't sleep?"
he replied ... "coz i wanna make sure u are able to find me when u miss me" ...

then something happened ... they broke up and the girl got another boyfriend -- B ...
B is also caring and all ...
but the only thing is ...
a lot of times ... when she misses him .. she can't find him coz his hp is off ...

she grumbled about his hp that is always off .. and he gave excuses ...
and whenever they are together ...
B will off his hp ..
saying that he doesn't want to be bothered by other calls when he is with her ...

and the girl accidently found out B have another girl ...
now she understand y the he always have to off his hp ...
the brokeup ... leaving the girl with a more than broken heart ...

after breakup ... the girl still misses B and called him ...
his phone is off ...
the girl's heart crushed ...

in despair .. she called the A's number ...
and he picked up ...

again ... she ask "why haven't sleep?"
and again ... he replied ... "coz i wanna make sure u are able to find me when u miss me" ...

the girl cried ...


p.s. anybody that wanna see the full picture and all of this email can msg me ... but please note that its in chinese ...