Workaholic. Good or bad?

Got this psychology test in office today and my result is NOT good -____-

Try it out and see if u're as ______ as me :p


你是個對工作超級狂熱的工作狂，還是超不喜歡工作的懶惰蟲？

做個小測驗，也可以趁此改變一下自己的工作態度喔。

測驗開始：從第一題開始，選出一個最符合你狀況的選項，再依照指示至下一題繼續作答。


１ 即使是不喜歡，你還是會因為商店促銷去買一樣東西？
是的，我看到便宜就想買 -〉 ２
反正買回家不久也丟掉，不要買好了 -〉 ３

２ 臨時有件事，你也只能坐公車出門，你會：
提早出門，免得耽誤了正事 -〉 ４
反正公車時間都很固定，差不多再出發就好 -〉 ５

３ 你平常是否有和朋友分享ｅ–ｍａｉｌ的習慣？
有，我超喜愛亂寄東西的 -〉 ６
很少，多半是人家寄給我較多 -〉 ７

４ 閒閒沒事幹，你通常都是如何打發時間的呢？
無聊當然就是上網看看有沒有什麼新鮮事 -〉 ７
騎(開)著車到處亂跑，最好是到新地方 -〉 ８

５ 如果你去拜訪朋友，發現他不在又正好忘了鎖門，你會：
躲起來惡作劇或給他一個驚喜 -〉 ９
先聯絡上他或是直接進去他房子等 -〉 １０

６ 看到自己的國人在奧運拿下金牌，你的心情是：
好興奮，幻想自己也能跟他一樣 -〉 ５
會很開心，不過過幾天感覺就淡了 -〉 １０

７ 如果遠遠走來一個電視明星，你會：
多看幾眼，不過可能不會有什麼舉動 -〉 ６
機會很難得，當然要把握時間跟他簽名合照 -〉 １０

８ 和朋友到KTV唱歌，你通常是：
第一件是就是找新歌排行榜，老歌我不要 -〉 ９
好多新歌都不會，只唱招牌歌或是聽人家唱 -〉 Ａ型

９ 你對你住的地方附近街道熟嗎？
豈止熟，我還知道很多別人不知道的祕密地方 -〉 １０
不算熟，大路會記得，小路不會走 -〉 Ｂ型

１０ 如果有一天你走在路上，有個你不認識的人跟你打招呼，你會：
問清楚他是哪一位朋友 -〉 Ｃ型
裝作沒看見，直接閃人 -〉 Ｄ型

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Result of the test:


Ａ型的人【工作狂指數：９０﹪】

你是個超級工作狂，責任感又重，一旦事情交到你手裡，上山下海，

使命必達！！
而且你也要求盡善盡美，總要超出老闆的期待你才會覺得滿意。這樣的你最好是慎
選工作，務求找到自己喜歡的類型才去做，才不會拼死拼活卻又得不到任何回報。
你的三餐以及工作時間也常不固定，需注意健康以免晚年無福享受打拼的結果。


Ｂ型的人【工作狂指數：７０﹪】

其實你也是個工作狂，只是你有限制條件。例如：太粗重的工作不做、太髒亂的工
作不做，或是太熱的環境你待不下去…等等。對於工作你也善於綜觀全局，不會一
味埋頭苦幹，分析完成之後，你便會全力投入，一口氣把事情搞定。只是有時後你
這種瀟灑自若的神態可能會給老闆不認真的印象，凡是還是低調點的好。


Ｃ型的人【工作狂指數：５０﹪】

其實要你工作，你真的很怕麻煩。找工作要面試：麻煩。忙到不可開支的工作：麻
煩。同事之間勾心鬥角：麻煩。從事單調簡單，重複同樣動作的工作：煩！所以適
合你的工作，可能也必須給你足夠的休閒娛樂那才合你胃口，也許一出社會就是經
理最合你意。建議你趁著年輕多吃點苦，想達成你要的目標其實不算太難。


Ｄ型的人【工作狂指數：３０﹪】

你大概是全世界最不喜歡工作的人了。就算老闆願意付你薪水不要你做事，你可能
也會覺得辦公室缺乏自由而待不住。你也可能常常怨東怨西，怨嘆自己為何不是誰
誰誰的孩子，怨嘆這個世界為何如此不公平。其實，人比人真的會氣死人，不喜歡
工作就專心往自己最擅長的領域去發展，堅持下去，冷門也能賺大錢！！

Guess which type am i? :p

~*~在此祝福全天下所以的有情人~*~都能夠忠誠眷屬~*~

愛上一个人... 如此的甜蜜卻又讓人受傷害 ...
放棄一个人... 如此的難過卻又讓人心碎 ...


珍惜身旁的每一个人,不要等到失去了, 才瞭解到遺憾.和後悔是如此的痛苦....


如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?
如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼?
是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開?
是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?


~※→因為愛你.所以放手還你自由←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以不再讓你困擾←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以寧願自己難過←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以我逼自己離開←※~

'Life isn' t about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain'

got this story from a fowarded email, and i really wanna share it:

It was a busy morning.

About 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived
to have stitches removed from his thumb, he said he was in a hurry as he had an
appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor'sappointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.

He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,

'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

just wanna share ...

Anger is never without a reason, but seldom with a good one. - Benjamin Franklin

Day 23

i shall be a copy cat today coz no pictures again.

thus,

i'll update with a very meaningful fowarded email for us to ponder upon :):):)





One day, a professor asked his students 'Why do we SHOUT instead of speak when we are ANGRY?'




All the students thought for a while. One answered 'Because we lost our calm. That's why we SHOUT.'



Asked the professor again, 'But the person is just right next to you, why can't we talk softly but have to SHOUT?'



Everyone gave their opinions, but none was accepted by the professor.



Lastly explained by the professor 'When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart. To mask the DISTANCE we felt, we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other party can hear us.'




'But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further. So we SHOUT even louder...'




'It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only we do not shout, we whisper into each other ears. Why?'



'This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepen, we reach a state of communication where there is no need for words.'



'We could understand each other well enough just by looking at each other,'


then the professor concluded that


'When we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts drift apart. WAIT until you feel your hearts are no longer far apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there.' :):):)



“For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.”
- Ralph Waldo Emerson


“Anger blows out the lamp of the mind”
- Robert Green Ingersoll


remember,

“Speak when you are angry - and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret.”
- Dr. Laurence J. Peter

thus,

“Let us not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but around in awareness.”
- James Thurber

爱一个人好难？

如果你不爱一个人,请放手. 好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你, 请放开自己, 好让自己有机会爱别人.

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的, 有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.

人生中有许多种 . 但别让自己为一种伤害.

有些缘分是注定要失去的, 有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,

爱一个人不一定要拥有, 但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.

男人哭了是因为他真的爱了. 女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害, 我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害, 我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害, 我选择离开.

如果失去是苦，你怕不怕付出 ,
如果迷乱是苦，你会不会选择结束,
如果追求是苦，你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,
如果分离是苦，你要向谁倾诉,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚, 好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!



其实爱一个人是很简单的，

１.她無聊時陪她.
２.她難過時安慰她.
３.不讓女友主動約.
4.讓她每天都開心愉快.
5.不要讓她傷心難過.
6.當她被欺負要立刻去保護她.
7.不要隱瞞女友事情.
8.不背叛.

有那么难吗？

to those who are on diet mode.

Q: I've heard that cardiovascular exercise can prolong life; is this true?
A: Your heart is only good for so many beats, and that's it... Don't waste them on exercise. Everything wears out eventually. Speeding up your heart will not make you live longer; that's like saying you can extend the life of your car by driving it faster. Want to live longer? Take a nap.


Q: Should I cut down on meat and eat more fruits and vegetables?
A: You must grasp logistical efficiencies. What does a cow eat? Hay and corn. And what are these? Vegetables. So a steak is nothing more than an efficient mechanism of delivering vegetables to your system. Need grain? Eat chicken. Beef is also a good source of field grass (green leafy vegetable). And a pork chop can give you 100% of your recommended daily allowance of vegetable products.


Q:Should I reduce my alcohol intake?
A: No, not at all. Wine is made from fruit. Brandy is distilled wine, that means they take the water out of the fruity bit so you get even more of the goodness that way. Beer is also made out of grain.
Bottoms up!


Q:How can I calculate my body/fat ratio?
A: Well, if you have a body and you have fat, your ratio is one to one. If you have two bodies your ratio is two to one, etc.


Q:What are some of the advantages of participating in a regular exercise program?
A: Can't think of a single one, sorry. My philosophy is: No Pain...Good!


Q:Aren't fried foods bad for you?
A: YOU'RE NOT LISTENING!!! Foods are fried these days in vegetable oil. In fact, they're permeated in it. How could getting more vegetables be bad for you?


Q: Will sit-ups help prevent me from getting a little soft around the middle?
A: Definitely not! When you exercise a muscle, it gets bigger. You should only be doing sit-ups if you want a bigger stomach.


Q: Is chocolate bad for me?
A: Are you crazy? HELLO!! Cocoa beans! Another vegetable!!! It's the best feel-good food around!


Q: Is swimming good for your figure?
A: If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me.


Q: Is getting in-shape important for my lifestyle?
A: Hey! 'Round' is a shape!

:):):)


Well, I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about food and diets.

And remember:

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'


AND......


For those of you who watch what you eat , here's the final word on nutrition and health. It's a relief to know the truth after all those conflicting nutritional studies.


1. The Japanese eat very little fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

2. The Mexicans eat a lot of fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

3. The Chinese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

4. The Italians drink a lot of red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

5. The Germans drink a lot of beers and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.


CONCLUSION:

Eat and drink what you like. Speaking English is apparently what kills you ;):):)

i think a lot, i know.

some famous ppl once say and i quote,

"Think highly of yourself, for the world takes you at your own estimate."

but sometimes, i feel thinking too highly of yourself will eventually make u loose a lot of learning opportunities. nobody will, or rather they can't and they won't, correct things u did wrong. neither will they wanna even talk bout it.

if u r at managerial level, your subordinates will just continue kissing your shoes even if u did wrong. and they will let u think as highly of yourself as u want, but remember :

"Men think highly of those who rise rapidly in the world; whereas nothing rises quicker than dust, straw, and feathers."

i admit i am one of those who thinks a lot. especially when it comes to relationship wise.
but i surely hope i'm not one of those who thinks too highly of myself. i'm still young and i still got lots to learn. i don't wan any arrogance to be the obstacle for me to learn of grow. so if i'm thinking too highly of myself, please remind me if u consider yourself as a friend of mine.

othe women are born to think a lot and they tend to make simple things complicated. and i never dare to deny that. because i saw the 3 pics below.







*click on picture for larger view :):):)


thank God if u're a man.

its all about creativity.

they are so cute they make chrysanthemum look like some cutie pie that is much better than rose.
good idea for valentine's day ;):):)

jokes.

A man went to the police station wishing to speak with the burglar who had broken into his house the night before.

"You'll get your chance in court," said the desk sergeant.

"No, no,no!" said the man. "I want to know how he got into the house without waking my wife. I`ve been trying to do that for years!"

***********

The man approached a very beautiful woman in a large supermarket and asked,"You know, I've lost my wife here in the supermarket.

Can you talk to me for a couple of minutes?"

"Why?" she asks.

"Because every time I talk to a beautiful woman, my wife appears out of nowhere."

***********

"If there are any idiots in the room, will they please stand up?" said the sarcastic teacher.

After a long silence, one freshman rose to his feet."Now then mister, why do you consider yourself an idiot?" enquired the teacher with a sneer.

"Well, actually I don't," said the student, "but I hate to see you standing up there all by yourself."

***********

An elderly gentleman had serious hearing problems for a number of years.

He went to the doctor and the doctor was able to have him fitted for a set of hearing aids that allowed the gentleman to hear 100%.

The elderly gentleman went back in a month to the doctor and the doctor said, "Your hearing is perfect. Your family must be really pleased that you can hear again."

The gentleman replied, "Oh, I havn't told my family yet. I just sit around and listen to the conversations. I've changed my will three times!"

***********

Attending a wedding for the first time, a little girl whispered to her mother, "Why is the bride dressed in white?"

"Because white is the color of happiness and today is the happiest day of her life." Her mother tried to explain, keeping it simple.

The child thought about this for a moment,then said, " So, why is the groom wearing black?"

***********

A woman awoke excitedly on Valentine's Day and announced enthusiastically to her husband, "I just dreamed that you gave me a pearl necklace for Valentine's day! What do you think it means?"

With certainty in his voice, the man said, "You'll know tonight."

That evening the man came home with a small package and handed it to his wife. With anxious anticipation the woman quickly opened the package to find a book entitled - "The meaning of Dreams".

♥ 爱 ♥

not emo. just random :)
another fwd email to be shared :):):)

如果你不爱一个人, 请放手. 好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你, 请放开自己, 好让自己有机会爱别人.

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,
有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.

人生中有许多种人, 但别让自己为一种伤害.

有些缘分是注定要失去的,
有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的.

爱一个人不一定要拥有,
但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.

男人哭了是因为他真的爱了,
女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害, 我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害, 我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害, 我选择离开.

如果失去是苦， 那你怕不怕付出？
如果迷乱是苦， 你会不会选择结束？
如果追求是苦， 你会不会选择执迷不悟？
如果分离是苦， 你要向谁倾诉？
好多事情都是后来才看清楚,
好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦。。。

use the babel fish below to translate if u can't read chinese ;)

because it is too meaningful to not be shared.

i can tell that 99% of those who are internet savy get this email before and 80% of the ppl got it more than twice. come to think of it, it is circulated so widely for a reason though. and its only because every single line is really meaningful.

Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two
小心讀每一個，再用一兩秒想一想

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。

8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
緊記: 所有事也是因果循環的。