if u judge people, u have no time to love them - Mother Teressa

they say, if u love something, let it go. if it come back, its yours :)
i forgot its a song or something and i'm not sure if i've modified it, but its something lidat la kay.

and i've been holding on to this sentence for a very long time, and its usually in my mind when i'm about to, or i have already loose something. its a sentence to calm myself down besides everything happens for a reason :)


and i think the quote from mother Teressa today implied the same theory as the quote i mentioned above. if u judge people, u have no time to love them. so sometimes, when u're very very angry about something someone have said/done, try to just step back and think: if u were in their position, u will do the same? if u will, then u have no reason to be angry at them because u're not any different yourself.

if u keep judging people, u won't see be able to find any reason to love them because u can only see their flaws. that will make u look someone that has never received any blessings.

as hokkien ppl say:不嫌就不坏 [mai hiam jiao beh pai], be thankful u have your parents and be thankful of every single person around u --yes including your boss. try stop judging them. and in no time, u'll start loving them :):):)

Happy Thanksgiving ;):):)

Leslie & Maxine's Wedding :)

was trying to clear all my 'drafts' in my dashboard ad found this post i haven yet to publish.
i believe these r not all the pics, but thats all i've uploaded so bear with it :p

basically in a wedding all u can do is to play with your camera then eat then play with your hp then drink then eat again and the process repeats. so those r the pics :)

however it was a lovely wedding and from the bottom of my heart, i wish that they will be together till the end of time :)

everything is there for a reason.

Because i have sooo many fwded emails in my mail box, and also nuffnang rated me as : 

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I’m now going to update my blog with a quote a day and i’ll share MY own thoughts on the quotes to remind and hopefully help myself and also anyone that is or will be reading my blog to have a better life :)

But it will not always be bring quotes. It will sometimes be some useful fact that we might have over looked in life, i.e. today’s topic :):):)

Since today is the first day, and on first day we dun usually so serious stuffs on first days', i’ll share this email that is worth reading:

What is the toilet bowl cover for?

 

Workaholic. Good or bad?

Got this psychology test in office today and my result is NOT good -____-

Try it out and see if u're as ______ as me :p


你是個對工作超級狂熱的工作狂，還是超不喜歡工作的懶惰蟲？

做個小測驗，也可以趁此改變一下自己的工作態度喔。

測驗開始：從第一題開始，選出一個最符合你狀況的選項，再依照指示至下一題繼續作答。


１ 即使是不喜歡，你還是會因為商店促銷去買一樣東西？
是的，我看到便宜就想買 -〉 ２
反正買回家不久也丟掉，不要買好了 -〉 ３

２ 臨時有件事，你也只能坐公車出門，你會：
提早出門，免得耽誤了正事 -〉 ４
反正公車時間都很固定，差不多再出發就好 -〉 ５

３ 你平常是否有和朋友分享ｅ–ｍａｉｌ的習慣？
有，我超喜愛亂寄東西的 -〉 ６
很少，多半是人家寄給我較多 -〉 ７

４ 閒閒沒事幹，你通常都是如何打發時間的呢？
無聊當然就是上網看看有沒有什麼新鮮事 -〉 ７
騎(開)著車到處亂跑，最好是到新地方 -〉 ８

５ 如果你去拜訪朋友，發現他不在又正好忘了鎖門，你會：
躲起來惡作劇或給他一個驚喜 -〉 ９
先聯絡上他或是直接進去他房子等 -〉 １０

６ 看到自己的國人在奧運拿下金牌，你的心情是：
好興奮，幻想自己也能跟他一樣 -〉 ５
會很開心，不過過幾天感覺就淡了 -〉 １０

７ 如果遠遠走來一個電視明星，你會：
多看幾眼，不過可能不會有什麼舉動 -〉 ６
機會很難得，當然要把握時間跟他簽名合照 -〉 １０

８ 和朋友到KTV唱歌，你通常是：
第一件是就是找新歌排行榜，老歌我不要 -〉 ９
好多新歌都不會，只唱招牌歌或是聽人家唱 -〉 Ａ型

９ 你對你住的地方附近街道熟嗎？
豈止熟，我還知道很多別人不知道的祕密地方 -〉 １０
不算熟，大路會記得，小路不會走 -〉 Ｂ型

１０ 如果有一天你走在路上，有個你不認識的人跟你打招呼，你會：
問清楚他是哪一位朋友 -〉 Ｃ型
裝作沒看見，直接閃人 -〉 Ｄ型

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Result of the test:


Ａ型的人【工作狂指數：９０﹪】

你是個超級工作狂，責任感又重，一旦事情交到你手裡，上山下海，

使命必達！！
而且你也要求盡善盡美，總要超出老闆的期待你才會覺得滿意。這樣的你最好是慎
選工作，務求找到自己喜歡的類型才去做，才不會拼死拼活卻又得不到任何回報。
你的三餐以及工作時間也常不固定，需注意健康以免晚年無福享受打拼的結果。


Ｂ型的人【工作狂指數：７０﹪】

其實你也是個工作狂，只是你有限制條件。例如：太粗重的工作不做、太髒亂的工
作不做，或是太熱的環境你待不下去…等等。對於工作你也善於綜觀全局，不會一
味埋頭苦幹，分析完成之後，你便會全力投入，一口氣把事情搞定。只是有時後你
這種瀟灑自若的神態可能會給老闆不認真的印象，凡是還是低調點的好。


Ｃ型的人【工作狂指數：５０﹪】

其實要你工作，你真的很怕麻煩。找工作要面試：麻煩。忙到不可開支的工作：麻
煩。同事之間勾心鬥角：麻煩。從事單調簡單，重複同樣動作的工作：煩！所以適
合你的工作，可能也必須給你足夠的休閒娛樂那才合你胃口，也許一出社會就是經
理最合你意。建議你趁著年輕多吃點苦，想達成你要的目標其實不算太難。


Ｄ型的人【工作狂指數：３０﹪】

你大概是全世界最不喜歡工作的人了。就算老闆願意付你薪水不要你做事，你可能
也會覺得辦公室缺乏自由而待不住。你也可能常常怨東怨西，怨嘆自己為何不是誰
誰誰的孩子，怨嘆這個世界為何如此不公平。其實，人比人真的會氣死人，不喜歡
工作就專心往自己最擅長的領域去發展，堅持下去，冷門也能賺大錢！！

Guess which type am i? :p

i saw my previous update in my prop's blog was 5 weeks ago.
even nuffnang rated that blog 0 stars now -.- freaking Z-E-R-O.

do u believe if i tell u i haven't buy anything in 5 weeks? LOLLL

the reason i did not update was coz ...

i bought TOO MANY things and i'm too lazy to put on each piece and take pic in from of the mirror and upload them -.- now i'm wondering how the blogshop owners have the patient to do that -.-


maybe i might TRY doing that later.


but for now, its good rain and sweet dreams :):):)

:)

<3

a post to make u feel hungry :)

on a fine weekend, we drove down to Seremban for a one day trip.
i will tell the long story later but for now, i'll just cut the long story share the best part of the whole trip with u guys ;):):)

::: Min Kok Restaurant @ Seremban :)


::: the starter :::


::: one whole piece of gong yu chi just for ME *BigWetEyes




*droolss ...


self explanatory pics:













i'm missing them so damn badly right now :(


especially this:

my <3<3<3