if u judge people, u have no time to love them - Mother Teressa

they say, if u love something, let it go. if it come back, its yours :)
i forgot its a song or something and i'm not sure if i've modified it, but its something lidat la kay.

and i've been holding on to this sentence for a very long time, and its usually in my mind when i'm about to, or i have already loose something. its a sentence to calm myself down besides everything happens for a reason :)


and i think the quote from mother Teressa today implied the same theory as the quote i mentioned above. if u judge people, u have no time to love them. so sometimes, when u're very very angry about something someone have said/done, try to just step back and think: if u were in their position, u will do the same? if u will, then u have no reason to be angry at them because u're not any different yourself.

if u keep judging people, u won't see be able to find any reason to love them because u can only see their flaws. that will make u look someone that has never received any blessings.

as hokkien ppl say:不嫌就不坏 [mai hiam jiao beh pai], be thankful u have your parents and be thankful of every single person around u --yes including your boss. try stop judging them. and in no time, u'll start loving them :):):)

Happy Thanksgiving ;):):)